Archive for March, 2009

Surprise

Saturday, March 14th, 2009

Surprise, that is what I was when I went to the hospital with a blood clot in my lungs.  I always think I am healthy. But when you have a pain in your chest, such as I had, you don’t really think it is anything serious, like a heart attack or a blood clot.  It hurts, but so does gas.  After a xray, a MRI, an EKG and a ultrasound, it was determined that I had a blood clot in my lungs (one on each side).  They gave me a shot in the rear end to ease the pain then started me on warfarin and heparin.  They also admitted me to the hospital, much to my dismay.  Now with an IV attached to me, and shots in the stomach you would think that a person should feel real bad, but after one day, I felt as good as new.  I was the healthiest person in the hospital, so I thought.  every day, more shots, more pills, more antibiotics, and drawing blood for testing.  I was starting to feel like a pin cushion.  After the third day, I was feeling like I was in prison, rather than a hospital. The food was starting to taste bad, tired of  TV, and the only saving grace was having my netbook and internet access.  There is nothing like have unlimited access to the internet when in the hospital.  And I really had good nurses and nurse Techs.  I really appreciated them.  They worked with me so I could get a good night sleep by not checking on me at night or waking me at midnight to do vitals. After a week, I finally obtained the level of warfarin in my blood that the Doctor would let me go home.  Now I will be taking it for 6 months.

But all this is just to lead into what I really have to say.  Anyone can be surprised when you find a blood clot somewhere in your body.  They hurt.  So since most people who read this are addicted to the computer, spend long hours sitting, let me just remind you to get out of your chair every hour, walk around and move some blood.  When driving a distance, stop and take breaks.  I do not want any of you to go through what I am doing.  It is not fun.  The pills are not bad, but the testing never ends while you are on medication, your diet is changed because of foods that affect warfarin, and you are to some degree limited in what you do when your blood count is wrong.  This is dangerous stuff.  You can bleed to death internally or externally if the med’s are not at the right level.  There are technical pages on the internet that describe all this, but be honest, how many of you will look it up?  Since you will not, just keep in mind that blood clots can be prevented in most cases by just moving around more often.  Simple and sweet, MOVE.

There is something on my mind

Monday, March 2nd, 2009

How much time do we spend with our parents? Unfortunately, both my parents have passed away. But I can look back through the years and recognize the times when I should have visited more often; made one more phone call; and, should have written more letters. A friend of mine says “don’t should on yourself.” She’s right. What good does it do now? Recently, 3 sons of a member of my family gathered to visit with each other in the same town where their parents lived. Out of the almost 3 days they were there, they spent approximately 30 minutes with their parents and that was only 2 of the 3. Since that time, no words have been spoken to indicate they are even aware of how rude and disrespectful their actions were. These are not children. They are grown men. I have no control over any part of this situation and that’s probably why it bothers me so. I can do nothing, absolutely nothing about it. So here’s the part where I should just let it go. Hopefully I can do that and do it soon. But right now it still weighs heavily on my heart. I loved my parents very much and I am fully aware of the times I did not show them the respect they deserved. But I am certain I would never have been in the same town where they lived and not spend more than 30 minutes with them. Thanks for listening. This was something that’s been on my mind and I just had to share.